steph @stephgilder

steph photos and videos

April 2019

the annual selfie

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April 2019

your struggles, your story, your journey is YOURS. those people telling you to “just think happy thoughts”, despite having good intentions, know nothing about you and/or what you’re going through. it makes it all seem so trivial, so insignificant, so ‘not that bad’. but it can be bad. it can be hard. take care of yourself on your own terms, because you know you and your mind more than anyone else, even though sometimes it feels like you have absolutely no idea what’s going on up there at all. and if you don’t feel you can do that alone, that’s okay!!!! it’s so incredibly important to remember that you’re not alone, which is cliche but so so true. there’s always someone there, whether you know it or not. you’ve got this. i’m not one to actively speak about my own problems on here, but i always want to remind those around me how much it means to me and others when these feelings aren’t brushed aside or belittled or seen as something temporary that will be gone the next time i see you. being constantly anxious and low, flare ups making it seem even worse - it’s continuous, ever-changing, and so frustrating. it’s not all of me, but it’s part of me. and as we say every single year, the discussion surrounding mental health needs to expand and become something we don’t fear. i just hope one year this is the norm and we don’t have to keep wishing for change. #worldmentalhealthday

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March 2018

My favourite person in the entire world. Happy Mother’s Day ❤️

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January 2018

they’ve added sparkles but it’s still basic......happy new year !

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October 2017

never let anyone tell you that you’re not important or make you feel like whatever you’re going through is irrelevant or insignificant. you matter. #worldmentalhealthday

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July 2017

that's new

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May 2017

was incredibly lucky to attend Harry Styles' first ever full solo show last night, pretty sure there was only about 300 people there😩 i'm even more excited for his concert in October now💃🏻 .. highly recommend listening to his self-titled album, which is where this song, kiwi, is from (even if you're not a fan ) .. thanks for a great night @harrystyles !!! 🥝🎸 (for the shower at the end of this video too🙄 )

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April 2017

the hair is always there🤷🏻‍♀️

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February 2018

gonna be one of those people and have the same thing posted here as on my story🤷🏻‍♀️ ( @victoriaheff )

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March 2017

my uni is so pretty at 2am✨🌿🌳

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February 2017

shine bright like a.........light bulb?💡

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September 2017

RIP George Michael. A true icon. too many talented people have been taken from us this year. all we can do is hope that 2017 will bring only love, health and happiness for all. 🎶i gotta have faith 🎶

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February 2017

the sun goes down and it comes back up, the world it turns no matter what, if it all goes wrong, darling, just hold on.

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February 2017

in love with the pattern on this shirt 🌹⚓️🗝🕊👁⚡️⏱💫 (took me an embarrassingly long time to find those emojis )

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February 2017

omw #missguided

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November 2017

SANTAAAAAAAAAAA

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February 2017

christmas time in london makes me happy✨

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February 2017

wish, hope, love, kiss

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November 2016

💜

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February 2017

birthday selfies ftw #finally19 #ineverhashtagwhyamidoingitnow

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February 2017

heartbreaking. someone who has no background or interest in politics and stands for nothing but himself and his own wealth and power has just been elected president of the states. i'd say "united states" but with what's just happened it's pretty evident that the USA is anything but united. black lives matter. love is love. women are strong. minorities matter. absolutely speechless. this picture says it all, really.

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October 2016

yesterday was fun🎃👻🎢

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October 2016

a person's mental health is just as important as a problem you can see in front of you. it's hard to understand and it's hard to explain. but these problems do exist, and the stigma surrounding them needs to be broken. to anyone who has experienced or is experiencing any problems, you are not defined by your mental health. and these problems are not a sign of weakness. talk to someone, find something you enjoy to help keep your mind occupied, surround yourself with loving and caring people, and always, always remember: "the strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about." . #worldmentalhealthday (i'd apologise for rambling but this is important to me and many others. we need to talk more about this topic and stop being ashamed of any problems we have just because of how society views those with mental health issues. )

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October 2016

first snapchat filter post on my instagram. what a momentous occasion.

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July 2016

thinking of those affected by the awful events in France😓🇫🇷❤️

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June 2016

when the rain on your window looks like stars🌌☔️

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April 2016

Another legend gone too soon. RIP Prince.

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April 2016

you say pretty i say hayfever🙅🏻

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April 2016

🙆🏻💖

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February 2016

it was about time💁🏻

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January 2016

Alan Rickman. Hans Gruber. The Sheriff of Nottingham. My personal favourite, Professor Severus Snape. RIP, you will be missed.

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January 2016

RIP David Bowie. Legend.

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November 2015

i didn't even cut the cake so i don't know what's happening here. i think i was just drawing lines in the icing 🔪

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November 2015

had a good birthday yesterday🎂🎊

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October 2015

🌅

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October 2015

pls take me back😩

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June 2015

obviously don't know where the camera is👺

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May 2015

why is there no red bus emoji?

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May 2015

🌞

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May 2015

make a wish

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May 2015

✌🏻

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May 2015

yer a wizard harry

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February 2015

Soho.

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January 2015

🔳

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January 2015

🚇

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January 2015

We obviously haven't mastered the selfie stick yet.

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December 2014

take me back😩✏️

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